Mom buys 13-year-old daughter 5 items at the mall during father-son boys trip, son complains about the so-called shopping spree: 'She got all these cool things and he got nothing'

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    AITA For Taking My Daughter On A Shopping Spree?
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    Context: I 35(F) have two kids, one being 13(F) and the other 10(M). My husband just took my son on a boys trip to Michigan and I just got promotion.
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    My son had been wanting to go on the boys trip for months and my Husband and I finally made the plans for it. Once they left, I told my daughter "let's go to the mall." She got all excited which made me excited and we hopped in the car.
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    We went to Bath and Body Works and I got her a candle. And we went to American Eagle and she wanted a pair of jeans and earrings, so I got them for her. Then lastly, we got Starbucks after I took her to Ulta to get her a new mascara.
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    I wanted to treat her since we couldn't go on a vacation. She was super happy and grateful. I wanted to use my promotion for good.
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    Once the boys got home my daughter was so excited to show her brother what she got. And he got so upset that she got all these cool things and he got nothing. My husband also said that I shouldn't get her all of these things and that it's not fair to my son. They had went on a week long vacation. I don't want my family to pick sides. AITA?
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    IamIrene 4 days ago Commander in Cheeks [299] and he got nothing Well if that isn't revealing of his nature I don't know what is. True, he's 10 and is taking his cues from dad...but what better time to teach him to be appreciative of the wonderful things he has instead of being envious of the things someone else has.
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    Also, he needs to be reminded. He just went on a father-son trip, his attitude is completely inappropriate. You are NTA. Your husband though... he's demonstrating some bad character traits for your son.
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    LingonberryPrior6896 4 days ago · Agreed. Plus, as shopping sprees go, this was tame!
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    hiimlauralee 4 days ago My thoughts exactly! I thought she was going to say they spent like $1000.
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    Environmental_Art591. 4 days ago Right like 5 things from four different places is a shopping spree. Also apparently a few hours (at most) at a shopping mall is equal to a vacation. Yeah there is definitely some men deserve more than women attitude forming here.
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    flickanelde 4 days ago That's only if you count the Starbucks, which would be ridiculous. And the jeans are regular clothing she'd need at some point anyway. So, ultimately, she got a candle, a pair of earrings, and a mascara in place of a weekend trip. That's maybe $60. These males are whiny and selfish.
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    tamij1313 4 days ago I read it as a WEEK long vacation! Have dad and son tally up the fuel, lodging, food, activities, transportation, ...as I'm guessing the daughter got significantly short changed in this deal!
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    She and mom need to go out again and probably need to add in a movie, mani/pedi, hair salon, massages, dinner out, and of course a bit more shopping.
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    Son is ungrateful but probably has no idea of how much was spent on his WEEK LONG vacation vs a few items from the mall for sister. Brother needs to see the spreadsheet and then thank his parents for the vacation. Dad needs to make the difference up to daughter and mom! Let them find out what a SPREE really is!!!
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    justanotherreader85. 4 days ago I have two daughters. If my wife came home from the mall and told me she bought one of them this while I was on vacation with the other I would have asked "that's it?" The husband and son need a reality check.
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    Schattentochter · 4 days ago I can smell the "pff, mascara? Why spend money on something so useless?" from here. It's technically frivolous spending - only dad's ignoring that the same could be argued for trips. All spending solely done to bring us joy is that. The question I'd really like answered is when the father-daughter-trip is scheduled. Surely that's the plan since dad has such issues with one child getting something the other does not, right?
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    AlexandraG94. 4 days ago Also feel bad for thah girl, she so was innocently excited to show her brother and then this.

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